1. Anonymous asked: I read your tweets and Instagram every time I catch them in my timeline and they keep me gong and want wing to do better for my self. I was caught flirting with another girl via text I really do like my girlfriend so I just hate myself for entertaining that stuff now she didnt breakup with me but told me this is my last chance how do I go to showing that I do want her because I truly do want to be in a relationship with her and I do appreciate her. Thanks.

    You made a mistake and you admit it. Congrats you did what most men fail to do! HAHA. In all seriousness, I’m happy your girlfriend gave you a second chance. I think you need to be yourself. Don’t go overboard. But show you appreciate having her in your life. I don’t know her, but you do! What does she like? What makes her smile? You have all the answers inside of you. Don’t be afraid by living in the past. Move forward and make her happy today! :)

    xoxo,

    MMCM

     


  2. Anonymous asked: I think I'm dealing with my first heart break from a seemingly perfect relationship that suddenly went wrong out of nowhere. We tried to maintain a friendship and it let me to being a little crazy because of how he acts on instagram, he finally lost his mind and told me alot of negative things and that he doesnt love me when a week before he said he did. How do you get over this? He said he wants to "do him right now" and "this chapter is over but our book isnt closed" Hellpp...

    I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Its terrible. I’ve been there. It sucks what social media does. Sometimes exes can use it as a tool to cut the wound deeper. You must recognize that it’s exactly that…A TOOL. An ex of mine used social media to get back at me, and said he wanted to make me feel the way I had made him feel. He calculated it to get a reaction out of me. I went ahead and ignored him. I chose to cut all ties with him. I chose to move forward. Real healing for my heart came when I forgave him. I know it’s the hardest thing to do, but write it, confess it with your mouth, say everything you need to say and forgive. And do not act like him. Do not try and reciprocate with an immature attitude. Forgive him and move forward. If in the future he comes back differently then deal with it then. Right now worry about you, your mind, and your heart.

    xoxo,

    MMCM

     


  3. Anonymous asked: how much will the book be? I want to save up and make sure I get your book!! I can not wait! ❤️❤️❤️

    You are sweet. “Letters, To The Men I Have Loved” will be priced at $17.95. More info coming soon!

    xoxo,

    MMCM

     

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  5. bossybella asked: You have no idea how much I needed to see that last post. I cannot wait for forgiveness to show it's face... Thank you so much ❤️

    I’m glad it helped…I love to hear the growth in all of you! 

    xoxo,

    MMCM

     

  6. A piece that didn’t make the book but I still love. ❤️ #MMCM #SomeRomanceForYourDay—-un poco romance para tu dia!

     


  7. "All I wanted was to crush him with my words. As if my words had the power to remove my pain and make us even. I was wrong. My words bounced back and cut my wound deeper. Pain is not healed with anger. The wound only closes when forgiveness shows its face."
    — Mirtha Michelle Castro Marmol
     

  8. The Miseducation of #MMCM ❤️ #BeenThereDoneThat #SorryForTheFword #SorryMom #ItJustRhymedBetter

     

  9. Everyone keeps asking when “Letters, To The Men I Have Loved” is being released…Late May the book will be available! Meanwhile here is the official introductory poem for the book that FYI feels like a novel…because I have immortalized these men in words…Aren’t they lucky? Lol

     


  10. Anonymous asked: I really want to buy your book "letters, to the men I have loved" & I was wondering where I could get it from?

    Thank you but it’s “Letters To The Men I Have Loved” will be out in late may!!! Everywhere where books are sold.

     


  11. avintageheartxo asked: May you please check some of the writings I wrote on my tumblr page and give me advice on how I can better it? I like writing but I want to know how I can better myself

    Give me a few days and I will!

    Xoxo,

    MMCM

     

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  13. Anonymous asked: You are such an incredible woman with so much talent. Because of you my love for art and writing has grown again! I would love some advice from you. How do you let go and move on from a cheating man? Who's now with another woman, but continuously comes back? I love him so much but he has made me look like a fool. I want to walk away from this as a powerful confident woman and with pride. But everytime he calls, I become so weak. He lives with his current gf now, but still calls and she knows

    Thank you for your words! Well, If he’s living with his girlfriend it’s definitely serious. He’s proving to you he’s a serial cheater, so why are you weak for him again? He’s obviously not the best candidate. His girlfriend is the weak one here because she stays. You don’t have to be the same. You have the opportunity to cut him off before it becomes worse. He obviously has nothing to offer you when he’s committed (LIVING TOGETHER IS COMMITMENT) to someone else. If he were to leave his girlfriend and get together with you he probably will do the same to you. If I were you I cut him off and avoid the bad Karma. Cause everything does come back around!

    xoxo,

    MMCM

     


  14. Anonymous asked: Hola beautiful! I adore your poetry. Can't wait for your book to come out. Where do you find your inspiration from to write? Your words flow so beautifully, everytime I try to put thoughts into words I have a tough time. Also, what is your piece of advice for young women in there 20s who are still trying to find themseleves, there confidence, self worth/love and respect? And how to remain confident while dating. And able to walk away from a man who does not see my worth. Sometimes I feel so lost

    Thank you so much! I can’t wait for my book to come out either! haha! My inspiration comes from life and experiences that touch me. I take time alone to listen to my thoughts. It’s interesting when I was living with my last boyfriend we did everything together and as a result I wrote less. It’s important to have those times of solitude. I think the times I spend alone  are the times I learn more about myself because the key of finding yourself  is taking time to listen to your spirit and your needs. If you want to walk away from a man you feel does not see your worth all you have to do is make the decision to do so. No one can make that decision but you. Of course its hard, But how badly do you want a different type of man in your life? I don’t know the situation but something special occurs when you begin to prioritize yourself. Give yourself a chance to meet other people who will value you and see how special you are.

    xoxo,

    MMCM

     


  15. Anonymous asked: Do you believe that you can fall in love with someone even though you have never talked to them? Cause I always have this strange feeling in my heart when I see him or think of him but I'm not sure if it's a true feeling or just a imagination. See I can't tell you what it feels like when you're in love cause I've never been in love till now, I think. Do you get what I'm trying to tell you?

    I think you can become infatuated with that person but not in love. Infatuation is what you’re feeling. It’s admiring with the mind and heart. Real love is beyond moments and a journey between two people. It’s an exciting feeling you’re experiencing and I think you should pursue it! At least go ahead and say hi!

    xoxo,

    MMCM