1. Anonymous said: We will receive the Monday column in our email right?

    YES she you sign up at mirthamichelle.com you will receive the MMCM Monday Column in your email on Mondays! :)

     


  2. x3stephanieee said: When is your next book coming out? Obsessed with the first one 😍

    In a year!!!! I know it seems so far! I started a Monday column so it won’t feel too far away!!! Sign up at mirthamichelle.com bottom of the page!! XoXo

     


  3. tashileex3 said: I just finished reading your book literally took me an hour to read and i want more!!! I related to almost every letter just thought you should know how amazing ur book was although im sure you already know that, thank you sooo much for it!!!!!❤️

    Thank You so much!! Believe it or not I am humbled every time someone reaches out and tells me that. I don’t expect everyone to love it, but I am extremely grateful for those that do!!

    xoxo

    MMCM

     

  4. A brief look into a interview I did with SelfPublishingNews.com. The entire interview will be out in Mid-November!

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  5. Thinking of gift ideas for the holidays? Well the #LettersToTheMenIHaveLoved tote is now for sale at MirthaMichelle.com — Go get one for you and your BFF 👯

     

  6. If my words fail, let my eyes and my heart be my language—#MMCM

     


  7. Anonymous said: Hey mirtha! I had the love of my life for 1 year but then he suddenly broke up with me. It surprised me because we were happy together... But now 1 year is past by and I'm still in love with him but why? Why is it impossible to let him go out of my life? I'm still sad about it even it it's 1 year ago... And I don't know what to do. How can I find a way ? Thank you I love your book!

    Awww honey it’s ok. Sometimes heartbreaks last a little longer than what we expect. You really loved him. But there is someone else out there you can love more. Maybe he was only meant to come into your life to teach about love. Open yourself to meeting someone else. Don’t just say it…Do it. Pray for your soul to let go of his soul altogether…

    xoxo

    MMCM

     


  8. Anonymous said: You're my inspiration,my motivation, your writing took me somewhere else, somewhere beautiful despite all the pain I was going thru, you're truly a superwoman ! I admire you, I cant thank you enough for sharing your flawless writings with us , you have given me strength and I can never describe how talented you are, cause you are talented beyond description , god bless you <3

    Thank you! Means a lot to me!! Glad you are empowered and stronger now!

    xoxo

    MMCM

     


  9. Anonymous said: Hi Mirtha, my boyfriend & I have been together for almost 3 yrs & I kind of feel like we've switched. I didn't treat him the way I was supposed to in the beginning I was very inconsiderate of his feelings & I was just a real bitch but he always stayed no matter what. We broke up for a while & now were back together but he tends to throw in my face how I used to treat him & he finds the need to be in control But he's kind of pushing me away by doing that. Could this just be my karma?

    Sometimes the tables turn. Maybe you needed to see how you hurt him before. But instead of becoming a martyr and taking on suffering do this: Apologize to him for how you treated him then, have a heart to heart, tell him you love him, and you want him to truly forgive you so he can let that resentment go and you guys can start fresh, because there is no need to live in the past. Love heals :)

    Hope it works out!

    xoxo

    MMCM

     


  10. Anonymous said: I just turned 25 and I feel hopeless. I've never been in love, I don't date and I am afraid will end up alone. I know I can be a bit guarded but who isn't? I'm surrounded by guys all the time but to them I am just the amazing friend. How do I shake this? How do I get closer to finding love?

    Fear Keeps us From flying. Our thoughts dictate our reality. You are a baby! You have your entire life ahead! Love will find you when you open yourself to it. You must think differently. If you think you never will…well, guess what? you never will. But if you take a different approach and not stress it and smile and wake up every day thanking the universe for all the love you have and for the great guy you’re gonna fall in love with…I believe it will happen.

    Now it’s only a matter for you to believe the same!

    xoxo

    MMCM

     


  11. ashbeanz said: Hey mirtha, so my ex told me that he wants to see different people and he also said that me and him will never be together again. But then when I see him we have sex and he tells me he loves me. When he told me that we will never be together again. I always get a feeling that life is not worth living without him. I don't know what to do I love him. And the thought that he doesn't think I'm good enough to be with him hurts me :(

    First of all stop sleeping with him. You are only hurting yourself. You are good enough! Have you thought that maybe although it hurts there is someone out there who will love you and appreciate you more than him? He’s not that last man in the world! Cut him off. Heal. Give yourself a chance to meet that other man that will appreciate you! 

    PS Life is def worth living! Look around you. Look at the sky. Look at the moon. Look at the birds. The trees. The people that love you. Your family and friends. Life is worth living! 

    xoxo

    MMCM

     


  12. jadorexx said: Your skin is so beautiful!! If you don't mind me asking, what are some of your favorite beauty tips to keep your skin clear and healthy?

    Thank you! I drink lots of water and let my skin breathe. I’m not huge fan of foundation, unless it’s at night for a special occasion. I don’t clog my pores. Always clean my make-up brushes. Use a good Vitamin C based moisturizer, and nightly oil serum. Apply facial masques to hydrate. 

    If I don’t do any of these things…I notice the difference!

    xoxo

    MMCM

     


  13. Anonymous said: Hi. I have been seeing someone that is engaged and we have been intimate. He says he says that the longer he is with her, the less happier he is. He claims to love me and what not but won't leave the situation he is in (not that I want him to) and recently he just cut things off with me. Do you think he just wanted to be intimate with me? And lied about his relationship with his fiancé?

    This is tricky because only God knows his true intentions, but I can tell you if he’s seeking intimacy with a woman that’s not his fiancee something in that relationship is off. Sometimes men stay in relationships because that woman provides a certain type of security. Maybe she’s the mother of his child. Who knows. Possibilities are endless. My impression tho is that you are questioning your value as a woman because he cut things off with you. Don’t question who you are and your worth because this dirtbag stayed with his fiancee. Yes, he most likely lied about some part of the story. But be happy he cut things off. Something YOU should’ve done. Never get involved with anyone that’s taken. I don’t want to give you the karma talk but in reality how will you ever trust a man who was in a relationship while he began to pursue you? What they do WITH you, they will do TO you. That’s just how the universe works. So avoid that in the future.

    Oh, and when he comes back around (because he will…They ALL come back at least to test the waters) make sure you don’t give him the time of day. Don’t even look for an explanation, don’t even talk to him, because that will only open the door for the same to occur AGAIN. 

    xoxo,

    MMCM

     


  14. Anonymous said: What would you do if you still feel like u are in love w an ex of 6yrs? u cant get them off ur mind, u constantly have dreams about them, & still feel very much in love. u also have always wondered when you will love another person the way you loved them. Everytime you hear certain songs, they remind you of that person or when u read love poems, that person pops up in your head. u know that person still cares for you & wants u. only thing is they have a gf, you have a bf of 2 years & a 1yr old.

    You are living in what I call the “What If” stage and you are hindering yourself from living a full life with your family (cause that’s what you have now) because you are dreaming of how someone that things didn’t work out with made you feel. Yes, timing is everything but we must also trust the process. God doesn’t make mistakes. WE do. Your baby was part of destiny. You didn’t abort it or miscarry it. You kept it. Sometimes we create this fantasy in our heads it could be better with someone from our past because it’s familiar and we lack something (maybe passion) from our current relationship. Totally normal. Routine can make things a bit boring. So instead of fantasizing about running back to your ex and creating this “we can’t be together because of our circumstances” story, CREATE a better story with your present partner. Create more passion. Create the romance. Do that for yourself !

    Xoxo,

    MMCM

     


  15. Anonymous said: I'm twenty four years old and I feel I have a hard time communicating with men. I don't what it is and I'm trying to figure it out, but it's so difficult for me to pin point it but I haven't been really exposed to relationships, I'm more of the type to have friends with benifits and maybe that's it why I haven't had a good time at communicating but I just feel I have a wall up and it's hard for me to let people in. What your suggestion

    I can understand. For a long time I had a difficult time communicating my feelings. That’s actually the reason why I write. One thing I can tell you first is stop the friends with benefits thing. You will be disappointed over and over because in your heart you want more. What you should try and do is see what in your childhood made you this way. Forgive whoever didn’t make you feel valued. Maybe you were bullied by stranger or even by a sibling or relative. Someone created that wall you have. Forgive out loud and let it go. Yes, OUT LOUD. Your mouth has power. Next is keep a journal. Put your thoughts in order. No one has to see it. This is between you and your inner self. Have those convos you want to have with yourself first. Practice what to say. And reaffirm to yourself these words: “I am a beautiful and strong soul, I am complete and true confidence secretes from my pores.” Say it until you believe it in so strongly you will be acting like a different person.

    Xoxo
    MMCM

    PS. No—I’m not a psychic.